Live-in relationships are rather uncharted territories in Indian families, sadly, even after we have legalized so many genders other than the traditional ones. But we can’t completely blame parents and relatives for this.
In simple words, India cannot be the West because we have traditions and cultures so deeply rooted that transforming into one where causal sex, live-in’s and several remarriages are accepted is a vision still distant in the future.
Yes, we millennials are doing all of that, and we have become mavericks who live by our rules, but there are things we simply cannot help sometimes.
When I spoke to my girlfriend about moving in soon after getting a job, our first thought was not how we would manage it or how we would work out the finances/responsibilities. Our first thought was “Parents kya kahenge?”
To add to that stress, I found laws related to live-in relationships, when I went online to search for living spaces. If you are planning to move in with your partner, it will be better if you know these laws. Yes, laws – like serious ones.
If You Live Together, You’re Considered Almost Married
You read that right. Some laws which apply on married couples apply on couples living together too. The Supreme Court calls any sort of “cohabitation” between two individuals in India, a simple form for relationship, even if they are not married. Hence, the rules apply.
It sounds very weird that India would legalize live-in relationships and even amend the definition of “wife” in the IPC, considering the fact that “Can we move in together?” sounds like “Can we get pregnant without getting married?” to most Indian parents.
Legal Services India throws some light upon the legal definition of living-in: an arrangement of living under which the couples that are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriage. The duration, short or long, can be decided by the couple.
Children born out of a live-in relationship are legal children of the couple, but there is just one small problem. The child has no rights to inherit anything legally from the parents, until they get married.
Adultery is also a very significant crime in live-in relationships. According to the IPC, the aggrieved party can file a criminal case under Section 497 of IPC. Not only that, even a divorce can be filed!
Freedom, But How Much?
There is financial freedom to a large extent. Unlike marriage, where finances are legally bound to be a joint venture, it is not the same for couples living together.
Women who want to get separated from their partners are not entitled to any maintenance money like married women are during a divorce.
A child born to a non-married couple living together is legitimate, which means, they need to take care of him or her the way a married couple would. All provisions and laws related to female foeticide and abortion apply to that child too.
For proper information on the laws, it is best to contact a lawyer since cases might differ. There are very few live-in cases which cross district courts and go to high courts. Matters are usually solved domestically.
Now the question is not “Parents kya kahenge?”. It is “gormint kya kahegi?!” and “courts kya kahenge?!”
Cheers to those who are about to move in and all the best to those who are about to ask their parents for it. Trust me, you’ll need it.
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